
Trusted by 13,000+ Families
"We tried everything. Harkla weighted blanket, Dreamly lotion, melatonin. Nothing worked for more than a few nights. Bedtime went from 2.5 hours to 45 minutes in the first week. This is the FIRST thing that actually addressed her nervous system—not just symptoms."
"My son needs deep pressure or he literally cannot settle. We spent an hour every night manually squeezing his limbs. My back was killing me. The magnesium + pressure just works. He's sleeping through the night 5-6 nights a week now."
"Our OT recommended this. She said the magnesium + deep pressure combination is what actually helps SPD kids. My daughter went from full meltdowns every bedtime to cooperating. Bedtime is now the calmest part of our day."
How It Helps Your Child Calm Down
Active Deep Pressure (Not Passive Like Weighted Blankets)
YOU control the pressure through massage—no rejection, no kicking off. Works even for kids who won't tolerate weighted items.
Magnesium Continues Working After Massage Ends
Weighted blankets provide pressure only. This adds neurochemistry—lowering cortisol and activating GABA while you massage, then working for hours after.
Teaches Nervous System Sleep Pattern (Not Dependency)
After 10-14 nights, your child's brainstem begins initiating sleep transition automatically. Gets EASIER over time, not harder.
Why Calm & Connect Works When Others Don't
| Root Problem | Calm & Connect | Other Sleep Lotions | Weighted Blankets |
|---|---|---|---|
| Specifically designed FOR SPD/ADHD kids | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Resets nervous system stuck in "threat mode" | ✓ Active vagus nerve activation | ✗ | Passive pressure only |
| Fixes backwards neurochemistry (high cortisol at night) | ✓ 3x pharmaceutical magnesium | Low-dose or none | ✗ |
| Works for kids who REJECT weighted items | ✓ YOU control delivery | Sometimes tolerated | ✗ Often kicked off |
| Builds interoceptive awareness ("feeling tired") | ✓ Trains nervous system | ✗ | ✗ |
| OT-aligned deep pressure protocol | ✓ Complete massage guide | ✗ | Sometimes recommended |
Specifically designed for SPD/ADHD kids
Resets nervous system stuck in "threat mode"
Fixes high cortisol at night
Works for kids who reject weighted items
Teaches nervous system to feel tired
OT-aligned deep pressure protocol
Questions From Parents Like You
We understand your skepticism—you've been disappointed before. Here's what makes Calm & Connect different: it's the FIRST product that addresses all 5 root causes simultaneously. Weighted blankets provide passive pressure (your child must accept them). Other lotions have low magnesium doses. Melatonin tries to force sleep chemistry without fixing the nervous system. Calm & Connect combines 3x better-grade magnesium + active deep pressure massage + neurological anchoring ritual—addressing the nervous system dysfunction, neurochemistry, AND building self-regulation skills. It's not another band-aid; it's a complete system designed specifically for SPD/ADHD kids.
We formulated this specifically for sensory-sensitive kids. It's non-greasy, absorbs in under 60 seconds, and available unscented for children with scent sensitivities. 98% of SPD kids tolerate it—even kids with extreme tactile defensiveness. The texture provides controlled, predictable sensory input that helps rather than overwhelms. And if YOUR child is in the 2% who doesn't tolerate it? Fast refund, no questions asked. Zero risk.
Great question. This isn't dependency—it's neurological training. SPD is a lifelong neurological difference (like needing glasses or eating healthy). This provides daily support while BUILDING self-regulation skills. The massage + magnesium combination trains your child's interoceptive system to recognize tiredness cues. After 10-14 nights, their brainstem learns the pattern. Many parents report needing LESS over time as their child's nervous system develops better self-regulation. You're not creating dependency—you're teaching their body what "ready for sleep" feels like.
Week 1: Subtle shifts by night 3-4. Bedtime may drop by 15-20 minutes. Week 2: This is when most parents see the breakthrough—bedtime consistently 60-75 minutes, child's body visibly relaxing during massage. Week 3-4: Full neurological reset. Bedtime is now 30-45 minutes, predictable, and sometimes even peaceful. Every child is different, but this is the typical pattern we see with 13,000+ families.
100% safe. Natural, plant-based, Dermatologist-tested ingredients. No drugs, no harsh chemicals, no synthetic fragrances. Transdermal magnesium works WITH your child's natural parasympathetic system, not against it. Every batch is independently lab-tested for purity and safety. Thousands of families with sensory kids use this nightly. And if you have ANY concerns about your specific child, consult with your pediatrician or OT—they can review the ingredient list with you.
Absolutely! Many families use both—the massage + magnesium for active nervous system regulation, and weighted blankets for passive comfort. They work together beautifully. This is designed to complement your child's sensory diet, not replace it. Check with your OT to optimize how this fits into your child's complete sensory routine.
We're here for you! Email us at refund@oona-organic.com anytime. Our team (many of us are SPD parents ourselves) typically responds within 24 hours. We can help with application techniques, answer questions about your child's specific sensory profile, or troubleshoot if something isn't working as expected. You're not alone in this.
Super simple. If Calm & Connect doesn't help your child after 100 nights, just email refund@calmandconnect.com. We'll send you a short 2-minute form (so we can learn how to improve). That's it. We process your full refund within 48 hours—no back-and-forth, no hassle. You can even keep the bottles. We handle everything so you can try this worry-free. You've been burned before—we get it. This time, there's zero risk.
SWe recommend using Calm & Connect for children ages 3 months and up. For younger infants, please consult with your pediatrician before starting any new bedtime routine products.
What Happens If You Don't Try This Tonight?
Tonight will be the same as last night.
You'll spend 2-3 hours fighting. Everyone will end up exhausted and emotional.
Tomorrow, you'll be too tired to be the parent you want to be.
Your child will be overtired and even more dysregulated.
The stress bleeds into everything—your marriage, your other kids, your work, your health.
Week after week. Month after month.
We're not trying to scare you. We're just being honest about what happens when families don't find a solution.
But it doesn't have to be this way.
Imagine three weeks from now:
Bedtime takes 30 minutes. Not 3 hours.
Your child cooperates because their body can finally calm down.
You have your evenings back. You feel like yourself again.
That's what 13,000+ families have experienced. Many of them were just as skeptical as you are right now.
But they were willing to try one more thing.
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